Over the last 12 years, I've read every book I could get my hands on and attended a lot of seminars. I was doing well in my business, but it seemed like everything was an uphill battle, and I wasn't attracting everything that I wanted. Sounds familiar?
I find that most people who are involved in self-improvement, do what the books and the seminars suggest. They set goals, they think positive, they dream big dreams, and yet, I still see people struggling. Why?
About a year and a half ago, I had a revelation. I knew about the law of attraction, and I believed that you get what you think about. But I didn't realize, and I believe most people miss this, is that you don't get what you think about, but you get what you vibrate or feel in the moment. The law of attraction responds to what you feel, not just what you think. These feelings are vibrations.
Let's say you have a goal of earning a certain amount of money. You think about it, and you visualize it, but often, we have doubts and fears. And when you have those doubts, you lower your vibration, and you attract the opposite of what you want. You're actually resisting what you desire.
The missing step in the goal setting formula and in attracting what you want, is to allow, not resist your desires. When you catch yourself having negative thoughts of doubt, and we all do, you have to stop and put your focus on the outcome that you want. At that moment you stop the negative attraction as you raise your vibration. We get what we pay attention to or focus on. That puts energy into what we think about. So when we feel good about something, that puts more energy into it, and we get more of it. Likewise when we feel bad or negative about something, we get more of the same. The law is neutral, it just responds.
Don't pay attention to the things you don't want. One example of that would be to open your wallet and see how much money you have. If you carry no cash, just by observing no money, you put out a vibration of that. And guess what you're attracting? That's right more of the same. Now when you look at a $100 bill, how does that make you feel? If you feel good, abundant, then start carrying a $100 bill, and every time you open your wallet and see it, you will be sending a vibration of abundance into the Universe, and you will get more of the same.
When I started to practice that in my life, amazing things started to happen. I started getting clients to call me, and opportunities started showing up, and all of a sudden I'm creating the results that I want.
So the bottom line is whatever you put your attention and focus on you get, whether you want to or not.
Vitaly Grinblat is an entrepreneur with a successful financial services business, and an internet marketing business. Visit http://www.lawofattractionfreecourse.com for a FREE 6 Day Course on how to attract more of what you desire, as well as other articles and resources.
