What are the things we all want in life? Health, happiness, money, love, safety... of the long list, these generally show up in one form or another. We all want to find love; or more specifically a love worth finding. It is encoded in our DNA to ensure the survival of the species. People ask how to meet "the one" in this busy life. Now think about that for just a moment. We have cars, planes, phones, cell phones, email, and a host of other transportation and communication devices unavailable to our ancestors and they did just fine. Despite the fact that movement and communication was much less advanced, the species not only sustained itself, but thrived. Marriages not only existed, but lasted. So what might the difference be? Well, from my observation, it seems people are so busy with careers, houses, cars, and the general hustle bustle of life, they have lost their focus. A century or two ago, a partnership was almost necessary for survival. Men and women not only put forth effort to find a partner, but they actually had faith that they would succeed. There weren't the prevalent examples of failed marriages, single career people, single parents, etc. that there are today but maintaining your relationship is another article.
So are you still single but want to be part of a couple? Can't seem to find your soul mate? Frustrated being alone? Well, you can either join the club of single, lonely, self-pitying people who enjoy phrases such as "All the good ones are taken", or you can make the decision to change your situation, learn a lesson from our ancestors, and take the steps to follow through. The key here is follow-through. Just reading an article and feeling sorry for yourself is going to help nothing.
Okay, enough of the preamble. Let's get to it. I think everyone would agree that some things have changed since the days of the horse drawn carriage, so we will modify our approach, but learn the focus and faith. The first step is to realize what you want in your mate. We all have characteristics we are looking for, so write them down. Take a week or at least a few days to do this. Really think about it. One thing to keep in mind here, is to write what you do want in a mate, not what you don't want. For example, you may be thinking "I don't want someone who wants to change me"; so turn it around and write "My perfect mate accepts and loves me exactly the way I am". If you are crazy about dark hair, blue eyes, whatever, be sure to include it.
Once you have your list written, write a page as if you already have the relationship of your dreams, that perfect love worth finding. You might say something along the lines of "I'm so grateful that I've met my perfect match. (S)He is exactly who I've been looking for. (S)He is honest, loving, etc...." and write about them. When you read what you write it should be an experience.
Now you have your list, and you've converted it into an experience. Keep that experience in a convenient place and read it every morning and every night but take it one step further. This step is an important one so pause here and focus your attention on the next line. While you are reading, feel the experience. Read that last line again. The entire point is to visualize yourself already having what you want. Visualization involves emotions. I personally know I've been successful when I find myself smiling and even shedding tears of joy with a visualization. This connects you with the energy that will manifest your intention.
There is one more step. That step is to let go, have faith, and let it happen. Understand that whatever you are focusing on is on its way. I'm not saying that you are going to make your list, write your experience, visualize, and "poof" there is the person of your dreams, but think about this for a moment. That person can be anywhere, doing anything, and in any situation. They may have to change jobs, move locations, finish school, or do any of the millions of things that can bring them within your circle to meet you. You may have to do countless things to move into their circle. Regardless, keep your focus and your intent and know that it is happening.
Think for a moment about some of the events in your life; those that happen by "chance". The odds are good that you could not have predicted, planned, or orchestrated those events. Think about the possibilities; then realize that every day you stay focused, you are both being brought together. We have no idea what events must transpire to allow that meeting, so patience is sometimes necessary. If we keep our faith however, success is sure to follow and your love worth finding will be found.
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