So if all the other stuff we do to “attract” the opposite sex is what’s causing us mental stress and emotional frustration, what does effortless attractiveness look like and feel like?
1. When your core values guide your actions and you feel yourself as worth of other’s attention and affection, you have tapped into the power of effortless attractiveness!
2. When you thrive both independently and interdependently, without the need to control or manipulate how others feel about you, you have tapped into the power of effortless attractiveness!
3. When your “human warmth” overflows to others, and men/women happily and willingly persuade themselves to be with you, and even actively seek interaction with you, you have tapped into the power of effortless attractiveness!
4. When you can initiate contact with a man/woman and are not trying to control and direct the outcome but instead lose yourself in the other and both to each other are unapologetic and unhindered in the moment, you have tapped into the power of effortless attractiveness!
5. When you can approach relationships with the opposite sex without anxiety, self-doubt, anger, insecurities, pain, panic or fear beneath your every word, actions and boundary of personal identity, you have tapped into the power of effortless attractiveness!
6. When you can consciously, efficiently and productively use your intellect, emotions, feelings, senses, intuition and body as a guide to dealing with situations and people and can turn even the most “painful” experiences to life lessons, you have tapped into the power of effortless attractiveness!
7. When you are able to figure out how to get more of what you want from others in ways that help them get what they want for themselves, you have tapped into the power of effortless attractiveness!
8. When you have the persistence and tenacity to stay with things to the end, while still knowing when to give up on something if your energy is better used elsewhere, you have tapped into the power of effortless attractiveness!
9. When you are confident about who you are as sexual being and your thoughts, emotions, intentions, dreams, desires, hopes and actions are infused with purpose, meaning, passion, sensuousness, vitality and life, you have tapped into the power of effortless attractiveness!
10. When your presence (and being in a relationship with you) inspires men/women to delve into their inner being and discover new avenues that can stretch them to heights and depths that they did not think was possible, you have tapped into the power of effortless attractiveness!
11. When you are thankful and show gratitude for the simple things that others say or do for you and for the little musings and surprises (good and seemingly bad) life leaves along the way, you have tapped into the power of effortless attractiveness!
12. When you effortlessly attract good people and opportunities into your life, you have tapped into the power of effortless attractiveness!
Does this seem like a tall order? You bet. The great news is that all of us have this natural ability to be naturally at EASE with ourselves and with others.
You don't have to have a technique or routine, master certain words or trade off your soul. All you have to do is allow yourself the mental, social, emotional and spiritual freedom to be who you are. This is your Fullness State. This is the state in which attraction happens effortlessly.
Once you’ve tapped into your fullness, you will find it easy, natural and FUN interacting with the women/men you desire and you will find yourself moving forward with such intention and power that you will become unstoppable in achieving your goal for a relationship that is dynamic, creative, passionate, meaningful, fulfilling and expanding.
But most importantly… you will feel your own power and sexual self confidence as a desirable man or woman increase. You’ll will find yourself charged with an overwhelming feeling of self worth that is unlike anything you’ve ever experienced before. And NOTHING will be able to make it go away.
About the Author: Christine Akiteng is an internationally renowned
Sexual Confidence/Dating Coach and author of e-Books: The Art Of
Seducing Out Of Fullness, Breaking A Bad Relationships Pattern, and
Playing Hard-To-Get The Love Way.
